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LEARN FROM CHILDREN ENJOYING THE MOMENT NOW

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LIVE IN THE MOMENT 

When I was born in Tenaru village, Gresik as the son of a goat herder farmer in the back of the house. A very beautiful time where there is no disruption of mobile phones, social media, the internet and a flood of information from all over the world with a single type and click on the phone. 

All I remember is happiness, joy, playing, bathing in the river, looking for grass for goat food, climbing randu trees, playing blowing kapok so scattered everywhere because of the wind, looking for fish at times, raining, running around, eating sugar cane, playing hide and seek in sugar cane fields, throwing wet land at each other in the rice fields.

My father bought me a pair of gibas goats, similar to sheep but different from Australian sheep with a lot of fur. Goats are placed next to the house, the cage of woven bamboo, made by my father. Every afternoon father burn wood around the goat pen with the aim of making smoke to repel mosquitoes- we call it "DIANG"



BE A HAPPY CHILD EVERY DAY

As a farm boy in the village I felt a life full of joy, pleasure, I knew nothing of anxiety, concern, regret, confusion, what was wrong. Day after day we fill with play, game gobak sodor, if hungry – we know Mother/emak must have cooked vegetable rice plus tempeh know our favorite, we do not know fast food.  
 
We were never at all worried about the past, when we were born, as a man or a woman, from whose family, born in a midwife or child shaman, we never thought of it at all, anyway it had happened. We never worry about the future, what we want to be, where to live, who we marry, we really live our lives now.
 
That's how we were as kids, never letting thoughts go anywhere. The same thing now I get from my children HAdil and Aufa who When playing shortened a while then get along again and fun to play again. Draw, doodle at each other – beat each other and get along and play again as if there's never been a fight. What a great thing, boys. 

 
BEST PERFORMANCE AND CREATIVITY 

 By enjoying the moment today makes us able to achieve the best performance, creativity without limits because it is free from the distraction of worry, fear, or desire that stirs up something elsewhere. This is the secret we can take from learning to children who enjoy the current condition.
 
Then do we not have to remember the past, design the future? The past remains we remember in a portion of glasses that are empowering, not something as excruciating as trauma and mental wounds. From history we learn something and prepare for the future, we realize that what we plant today, tomorrow we are ready to harvest.

Children experience day after day with full presence, as if all events are so important to him, they dissolve completely giving complete attention to anyone they are with. They happily sing loosely, they have no thoughts whether my voice is golden or fals, they just keep singing at will, dancing, runing, natural.

FREE AND POWERFUL SELF-EMPOWERMENT TECHNIQUES

If you are looking for new ways to transform yourself, try to learn from children, the way is to focus on the present moment, attention dissolves in the present, as I wrote in Bahasa Indonesia then I translated into English, This focus makes me feel something extraordinary. 

Enjoy life, do not have to be disturbed by the things of life, you do not have to waste energy thinking that life is full of complexity and misfortune, from now on be grateful for your life. Be happy as a child, they are sinless, sincere, innocent and adorable beings.  

Last night I did self hypnosis and asked myself, "How do I access the sense of going back to childhood and living in a village?" I got a pretty surprising answer which is, "keep the goats," It is in line with the wife's desire to live in the village atmosphere, wake up in the morning to see the rice fields and green leaves.



TELLING STORIES TO CHILDREN 

My children wondered how I used to be as a child? Where do you live? Is it the same as their current condition? Then how was grandpa as a kid? Ah, the kids are now really smart, critical and there are so many questions that I need to answer to satisfy their curiosity. In our hearts, our children will buy land in the village around Gunungpati or Ungaran and keep goats in a modern way, and cultivate crops. 

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